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James's avatar

We should replace "anyways" with "irregardless."

Kathy MacKay's avatar

Great conversation! My language pet peeve is “on accident.”

Cassie's avatar

Honestly, "on accident" is as annoying as the mid-Atlantic tendency to skip "to be" in phrases like "that needs to be fixed." Instead, they say, "That needs fixed." While more efficient and I know what it means, it was always annoying to me. At the same time, I love how unique American English evolves and splits into regional dialects.

Cassie's avatar

My grand father in law who immigrated from Europe was famous for saying, "you did that on perfect!"

Kathy MacKay's avatar

Oh, I have not heard that one. I had assumed “on accident” was a New England thing until I heard it elsewhere recently.

Mark Sundstrom's avatar

Loved this. I want to mention his book "Words on the Move" where he talks about how words change over the years and centuries. The audiobook is especially good because he reads it (and he's good at that) and hearing the words he's talking about helps a lot versus reading them on the page.

DJ's avatar

This was great. I also can’t stand “anyways,” and the Stuff White People Like blog was art.

Life Examiner's avatar

The writing about "U" and "non-U" English related to the English aristocracy came to mind. Nancy Mitford was the most noted observer of this, but not the only one.

JapanDan's avatar

Loved this. Happy to *literally* let language do what it does, but I struggle with ‘focus around’. John would probably call this a harmless sentence softener we should not waste even one second complaining about, but I want my pilot and my surgeon to focus directly ON their tasks. Not around. Focus, people, focus!

Benjamin Ryan's avatar

I don’t think my older brother ever recovered from loving Nirvana before they were big and then having them get big.

Paula's avatar

This was a fun podcast. I wish my junior high school English teacher could have listened to it as I believe the correct use of I vs me was not taught properly. More broadly, I wish these lessons could reach young people that are engaged in learning to use the language correctly. On another note, I am not a fan of the term "intellectual" because my father used it routinely in a pompous and off-putting way. While he had a Ph.D and read widely and was quite intelligent, common sense was not a strength of his and the lack of it tarnished his credibility as an intellectual I thought. I choose to avoid the term intellectual and to use other measures when evaluating someone with the label "intellectual". I was not very interested in correct use of grammar and language growing up, but it's gotten more and more important as time goes on and I really enjoy hearing about current trends and correctness.

Michellepollino's avatar

finally a good thumbnail photo of you!!!

BB's avatar

Prof Mc. Whorter is a delight as always. I actually quite enjoyed the grammar lesson :) my sensibilities are with Megan (guess I was taught in old school/elite manner) and read those sorts of books? @mehandaum, where can I find the last livestream you did with Penelope Trunk? I need my Penelope Trunk!!!! she's my spirit animal.

Meghan Daum's avatar

Penelope's last livestream appearance is here. And she's coming back this Thursday! https://www.theunspeakablepodcast.com/p/penelope-trunk-answers-your-questions

sherronkilgore@yahoo.com's avatar

Really enjoyed this conversation!!

David Fenbert's avatar

The phrase I don't like, that all newscasters now say is "take a listen". It was always "take a look" or "listen" or "listen to this". It bugs me and I won't say "take a listen". When did this become a normal phrase?

Frank Hyman's avatar

FWIW, I was a delegate for Rev. Jesse Jackson at the SC Democratic convention--we delivered the state to his presidential campaign--and I remember that he made the point that switching to "African-American" was meant to match the relevance of Italian-American, Irish-American, Polish-American, etc. And to put black folks on par with other communities.

Cassie's avatar

That's interesting insight! (My Mom has a Jesse Jackson for president vintage button.)

Cassie's avatar

The interesting thing about the 90s was the digital revolution... people with ambition had access to the types of tools formerly only available in schools or studios could utilize recorders, internet distro to get ideas out there, but it wasn't as accessible as a phone...

Cassie's avatar

John - I would read your memoir or, possibly collected works.

Cassie's avatar

I wonder if while you may have a low opinion of Twump's intelligence, you understand his appeal? (Not to mention the strength given to him by all the attention of those who spend so much time and talent to publicly criticize him.)